(They always seem to ooze masculinity, don’t they?) But if you need sharing communication and emotional reassurance, you may find that the mysterious brooder is actually an unresponsive “cold fish” after a few months. That muscled, tattooed bad boy is hotter than hell, and great in bed, but is he showing any sign that he is ready to settle down? You seek a man who wants a monogamous relationship, but do you really think you'll find him on Manhunt, Grindr or Scruff? (Trust me, these prowling tigers do not change their stripes once they are hitched.) Perhaps you have a bit of a fetish for the strong silent type. However, feeling subconsciously unlovable or unworthy can again rear its head here through your choices. Right is like looking for a needle in a gaystack.
For sure, so much of the gay male world is way too focused on looks, youth, the gym, partying, and fast hookups so searching for Mr. Remember, you are looking for a life mate that glass slipper is hardly one-size-fits-all, and very few men will qualify. No doubt, finding the right partner is not easy. 'It is impossible to meet the right guy.' Another way feeling unlovable manifests is in the choice of partner.
